What is New Life Adoptions?

New Life Adoptions was founded in 1983 and is a non-profit child placing agency licensed by the State of Texas.

How can New Life help?

New Life encourages each pregnant woman to explore all of her options (i.e. single parenting, co-parenting, marriage and adoption). We also encourage her to talk to family and friends, and explore community resources.

New Life offers group counseling, individual counseling and post-placement counseling to help the expectant /birth mother make the best choice for her and her baby. No one will pressure you about adoption.



Open Adoption refers simply to an adoption plan that is open to YOUR wishes.

We believe openness is beneficial to all parties, but is especially important for the child.

Open adoption at New Life means that an expectant parent(s) can choose:

  1. The adoptive family for their child from profile books of licensed families.
  2. To meet their chosen family in person before the birth.
  3. Their level of openness and contact with the family. You may choose an open relationship, a closed relationship or somewhere in between. (Adoptive families commit to sending letters and photos for 18 years, as well as to have 2-3 visits a year with the child and the birth family if desired).
  4. Their child’s name.
  5. Their personal hospital plan.

Do you have a place for birth mothers to stay?

Yes, we have information about maternity homes in Texas and other housing referrals.

Will the expectant mother’s medical costs be covered by either the agency or the adoptive parents or both?

If the child is placed for adoption through New Life, medical/hospital costs not covered by insurance will be paid by the agency.

If the adoption agency helps with the expectant mother’s expenses, what would that include?

Any assistance would be provided by the agency. Texas Licensing Standards are specific about the kinds of expenses we are allowed to provide. Each client’s needs will be assessed on a case by case basis. This may include a gas or grocery card, cell phone payment, assistance with rent, or other material assistance, counseling, etc.

If the expectant mother decides to parent the baby, does she/he repay New Life?

No. Texas Licensing Standards state that an agency providing adoption services must not require repayment for any services from an expectant mother who chooses to parent.


What will the adoptive family know about the birth parent(s)?

An adoptive family will receive a complete social, genetic, educational and medical history of the birth parents and his/her family. They would also be interested in knowing whatever the birth parent chooses to share, such as pictures of the birth parents, his/her family, history, etc. The agency will not share identifying information (address, phone number, etc.). That information may be shared by the birth mother when she feels comfortable doing so.

Can the expectant mother be involved in choosing the family for her child? Also, what information will be provided about the adoptive family?

Yes. Expectant parents will be shown profiles of prospective adoptive families, including pictures, first names, ages, occupation, educational background, interests and hobbies, letters they have written to the expectant mother, and autobiographies. Additionally, the expectant parent(s) will have the opportunity to meet the adoptive family they have chosen.

What qualifications must an adopting couple meet before they are accepted as clients in your agency?

We place children within the state of Texas in two-parent Christian homes where both husband and wife are active members of their church and have been married for at least three years. One parent must commit to being a stay-at home parent for at least 6 months after the placement of a child in their home. They must be emotionally stable, financially secure, and meet all licensing standards for the state of Texas.

Does New Life work with prospective adoptive couples who reside outside of Texas?

No. At this time we only work with couples residing in Texas.


What information, if any, is needed from the birth father?

Medical history is valuable for the child. If not, any information we receive from the birth father is what is disclosed from the expectant mother. If the birth father is known and chooses to be involved, we ask him to share information about his medical, educational and social background.

When, if at all, does the birth father have to be present in the legal process?

It is not mandatory that the birth father be present. If the expectant mother chooses to disclose information regarding the birth father and would like us to contact him, we will work with him.
If he is alleging to be the biological father of the child, he can register with the state Paternity Registry in the Bureau of Vital Statistics. This allows him to assert his parentage, independent of the mother, and preserve his rights as a parent. New Life is required to check this registry.

Does the birth father have to agree to the adoption? If yes, who gets him to sign the adoption papers?

If the expectant mom discloses the alleged birth father, and he chooses to be involved in the adoption, we may ask him to sign the Affidavit of Waiver of Interest in Child – the legal document relinquishing any parental rights he may have to the child. This document states that the expectant mother has named that person as the father of her child. It is not a statement of paternity. It is not a document that can be used in any other way (i.e. child support, etc.).

If the expectant mother is married, how does this impact the adoption process?

If an expectant mother is legally married, she must disclose this to New Life, as her husband is considered the legal father of the baby. This includes cases where the two are separated yet still legally married. as well as in situations where the husband is not the baby’s biological father.
In the case of a legal father, New Life must attempt to involve him in the adoption process. If he agrees with the adoption, he will sign a relinquishment, just as the birth mother does. If he does not agree with the adoption, he can hire an attorney and contest the adoption. If he does not wish to be involved, New Life must show evidence that we’ve performed due diligence in an attempt to involve him in the adoption process.

What if the birth father will not cooperate with the adoption plan?

The birth father that opposes the adoption has the right to hire an attorney and contest the adoption.
The birth father may choose not to sign the papers and in doing so his parental rights are terminated by default if he does nothing more in the matter.
It is our desire to work with known birth fathers who want to be a part of the adoption process. If a birth father chooses to sign the legal document, he can receive letters and pictures from the adoptive family just as the birth mother will.


What exactly do the agency’s files on the birth mother contain?

Birth mother files contain information on her social, genetic, educational and medical history as well as medical records from delivery, legal papers, correspondence and caseworker notes.

Who has access to the files at the adoption agency?

Only New Life staff members.

Can the birth mother request that the files be sealed until the child is eighteen or is this automatically the case?

Texas state law seals the legal records of the adoption automatically. We ask the birth mother to sign a Disclosure of Information statement indicating her desire and/or willingness to allow her child to see the adoption file, including her name and contact information when they reach the age of 18.

If a child is placed for adoption, can the child find the birth parents at age eighteen?

Yes. We keep our own registry for children placed through New Life.

Can a birth parent gain information from New Life on Minimum Standards, compliance status report, and the agency’s policies?

It’s possible. These are available upon request.


Do the birth mother’s parents need to sign papers in order for her to place her child for adoption (if she is under the age of 18)?

No, it is not legally necessary. Women under the age of 18 are considered emancipated minors when it comes to the decisions of her pregnancy and the baby. However, there is an affidavit that a parent can sign, indicating knowledge of her adoption plan.

When does the birth mother have to sign the adoption papers?

The birth mother will only sign the relinquishment papers when she chooses to do so.

What documents must be signed?

  • The Relinquishment of Parental Rights (If she is married, and her husband agrees to the adoption plan, he must also sign this document.).
  • An affidavit stating whether or not she is married, whether or not the father has established paternity, and if the alleged father of the baby has been supportive during the pregnancy.

Will the birth mother have to go to court?

No. The Affidavit of Relinquishment states that she waives her right to go to court; therefore she does not go to court.

Once the birth mother signs the adoption papers, can she change her mind?

No. The Relinquishment is very clear and specific in stating that it is final and irrevocable and that she should not sign it if she thinks she would ever wish to change her mind.

After the adoption is finalized, what further contact will the birth parent(s) have with the agency?

It is the desire of New Life to maintain contact with all birth parent(s). We want to be available to help birth parent(s) work through their grief and build a relationship with the adoptive family.

What happens if the baby is born with birth defects? Will the adoptive parents still want to adopt the baby?

Our goal is to place every child in a family where that child will be accepted, loved and nurtured. The adoptive family will be presented with a complete medical history. If they feel they are willing to accept these special needs, the placement will proceed as planned.
If the child’s difficulties are such that the chosen family feels they are not prepared or equipped to accept a child with these special needs, the birth mother can select another adoptive family.

How soon after the baby is born can she/he be placed in her/his new home?

The baby can be placed with the adoptive family as soon as the birth mother signs the Relinquishment of Parental Rights, which can be as soon as 48 hours after the baby’s birth.

If the baby is 48 hours old and the birth family needs more time to decide, what happens?

A baby might go into transitional care if a birth mother needs more time to consider her choice (up to 5 days).


Will the birth mother be able to see and spend time with her baby in the hospital?

Yes. This baby is hers; she has the same rights as any other parent. We encourage her to see the baby and spend time with him/her while in the hospital. These can be special moments and special memories.

Are the birth mother’s parents, friends, father of the baby, etc. allowed to see the baby?

The birth mom can allow anyone to visit. It’s her choice.

Can the birth mother have a picture of her baby?

Definitely. We encourage her to take as many pictures as she wants.

Can the birth mother name her baby, and will the adoptive parents keep the name she chooses?

Absolutely, she may name the baby. We encourage her to do so. New Life adoptive families agree to use that name as one of the child’s names for life. New Life recognizes the importance of a name. We believe that a name given to a child by his/her birth parent is a gift.

If the birth mother chooses to place her baby with a New Life family, what minimum communication with the family is the birth mother assured of?

All New Life families agree to meet with the birth parents during pregnancy, at the time of placement and again when the child is about 6 months old. All New Life adoptive families agree to send pictures, letters, and a developmental report every month for the first six months and at least twice a year after that for 18 years. New Life does not share the adoptive family’s last name or address nor the birth families. At the six-month visit, New Life expects our adoptive families to share with the birth families an email and a picture sharing application of their choice and continue meeting with the birth parent(s).
The adoptive parents understand the importance of regular visits for everyone in the adoption triad.
Any communication, contact, or visitation with the child is dependent on the adoptive parents’ consent, and such consent is not legally guaranteed. Adoptive families through New Life commit to have an open relationship.

What may the birth parents send to her child and will she have the assurance that their child will get these items?

Birth parents may send a letter explaining the reasons for choosing adoption. This will be a treasure that the child will cherish through the years. Some birth families send gifts at Christmas and birthdays. We encourage birth family letters and pictures to help the child and the family to know of their birth family’s love, care and concern. The best way to know if the child is getting these items is through an open relationship with the adoptive family.

If for some reason there is an accident and the child’s adoptive parents are killed, will the birth parents then be responsible for the child and would they have that option if they so desire?


What if the health of one of the adoptive parents were to change?

In the event of death, New Life will send information to all parts of the triad (adoptee, birth family & adoptive family).

Will the child be able to get information about the birth parents if she/he desires?

Yes, it’s definitely our goal. It depends largely on the birth parent maintaining contact with the adoptive family and agency through the years.

If the child searches for his/her birth parents through New Life, would the agency contact the birth parent(s) before the child does?

Yes. New Life would facilitate any reunion and contact all parties involved.

Can the birth parent(s) find their child if they decided to search for him/her?

That depends on the child, the family, the circumstances and the age of the child. If the child is eighteen and is open to meeting with his birth parent(s), the agency would seek to facilitate that meeting.
It is our goal at New Life that birth parents and adoptive families maintain contact at least twice a year so that a search is not necessary as the child approaches adulthood.

Will the child resent the birth parent(s) for making an adoption plan?

Research shows that most adopted children feel gratitude for their birth mother. In open adoption, the child has the opportunity to be in a life-long relationship with the birth parents and will be taught that their adoption was a choice made by sacrificial love from their birth parent(s).


Does the expectant mother have to pay for her adoption plan?

No. All services offered are free to the expectant mother.