The holidays often bring excitement and reunions, with extended family traveling in or you taking a road trip to see them. Either way, seeing family, maybe for the first time all year, is special.
While these gatherings can be joyful, you may feel uncertain about seeing relatives you haven’t shared your pregnancy news with yet.
Before talking with your family, confirm your pregnancy and start thinking through your options. If you are considering adoption or wondering what an adoption plan could look like, New Life Adoptions is here to talk with you. Reach out today.
Here are a few tips to help you prepare for conversations with extended family during the holidays.
Choose a Calm Moment
Holiday gatherings move quickly, so look for a calm moment rather than bringing it up in the middle of busy activities.
You might choose the relaxed period after dinner, during a drive to see holiday lights, or when smaller groups naturally break off to visit.
If you are worried about reactions, consider bringing a friend or partner along with you. If you need to leave early because you’re feeling uncomfortable or tired due to pregnancy, it will be nice to have their company.
Pick Who to Tell First
When extended family is in town, you may feel pressure to share the news with everyone at once. Instead, start with one or two people you feel closest to.
Who has to know? Who do you definitely want to tell in person at the event?. Talking with them first can help you feel more supported before speaking with others. Additionally, if this person is known for being unable to keep a secret (every family has one of these relatives), consider mentioning it toward the end of the event.
Set Your Limits
You do not need to share every detail of your situation. It is okay to say that you are still processing the news and exploring your options.
Think about what you feel comfortable sharing and what you would prefer to keep private, and set your limits. Planning a few responses ahead of time can help you stick to your plan if relatives ask unexpected or personal questions.
New Life Adoptions Is Here to Support You
If you are considering adoption or simply want to understand how an adoption plan works, you do not have to figure it out alone. New Life Adoptions provides caring support as you explore your options during the holiday season and beyond.
You can connect with us and begin the conversation here. We wish you a Merry Christmas full of peace as you figure out what’s next.